There are so many things I’d like him to do before I kick him out that I can’t do. Like cut up and remove the junk in the back yard and help me with the wallpaper he “bought” me (I bought) for Christmas… some are things he committed to doing like the wallpaper but most he brought into our lives in the first place like the junk… I feel concurrently deceitful and betrayed by this scenario. Does he owe me these things before I kick him out of my life or does the fact that I know I am getting ready to be done with this relationship mean I am forfeited all previously owed debts? In a court of law I would still be allowed to collect all reasonable debts in accordance with the agreed upon contract by both parties up to the date and time of the dissolution of said contract…. I am pretty damn sure.